When I first joined Facebook I found it very exciting. I added new friends almost daily, and spent time checking out their pages, their pictures, the activities they were involved in. I chatted, changed my profile picture constantly, commented on everyone’s status and received comments in return.
Then slowly, things started to change. As time went on there were fewer comments on my status updates. I noticed that some of my friends just disappeared never to be seen or heard from again. There was no longer a flurry of activity on my page, but I was aware that for some of my friends this was not the case. They never lost the activity, the comments on their status updates, the friend requests and I realized that even in Facebookland, there is a popular group.
My cousin Heather is part of this group. She updates her status many times during the day and tweets constantly while her entourage hangs on her every word, showering her with praise and compliments over her pithy statements and pictures of her children.
Then there’s my friend Ronnie, also a member of the popular group, with his band of followers. An update from Ronnie might include a general comment about the 27 hours of overtime he is going to work today and he gets at least 6 “likes” and 14 comments.
Perhaps it’s the nature of my status updates. Generally they read something like this: “going to the grocery store” or “going to Starbucks” but even when something particularly exciting happens like “dog groomer coming today” the response is underwhelming.
So I deactivated my account and entered the Blogosphere.
The wonderful world of blogging. Where there is no competition for space, my words don’t get lost in a scrolling news feed, and my 9 loyal followers come here daily just to hear what I have to say. (Actually, I have no idea if they come here daily, but let’s go with that.)
Yes, this is my venue of choice. My own little slice of cyberspace pie where I can go on and on about every stray thought that enters into my head. A place where I can share my soul-searching journey with anyone who cares to read about it. And perhaps when I find what I am looking for I will have a status update worthy of comment.